Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Reflections on Serving Seniors with Love

Two weeks ago, I started working two jobs at a local retirement community. Several nights a week and occasional weekend days I can be found at the reception desk doing all sorts of things, including answering the phone and responding to emergency pages from residents. When I’m not acting as receptionist, I can be found upstairs waiting tables with a bowtie and a smile. The other day at lunch, one of the residents asked me my name and proceeded to tell me all about the other Tiffany who just started working at the desk downstairs and “Isn’t it incredible that two Tiffanys started working here at the same time!” We had a good laugh when she paused for me to explain that I’m the same person. J


After lunch today, I met a wonderful older lady (which I realize is not uncommon in my line of work.) She had such a sweet smile, but she looked so tired. She let me know that she hadn’t had lunch yet and that she was hoping to get some food. I gave her what she needed to get some lunch, and we exchanged a few more kind words. The light turned green and I drove away as she made her way slowly back to the sidewalk with her cardboard sign.

Tears welled in my eyes as I reflected on the prior two hours of serving gourmet lunches to the residents I have so grown to love. What I would have given to have been able to offer her what they had eaten...

I love that our residents are offered kindness, respect, and loving care. It is my pleasure every day to do everything in my power to honor, enjoy, and serve the residents with whom I work, and I look forward to becoming better able to bless them as I learn their names and their needs.

And I hate that this woman’s financial situation excludes her from such treatment. It was my honor to speak briefly with her, and I regret that I did not find a way to offer her more than a few kind words and the means to buy food.

There is a tragic imbalance in the treatment of rich and poor, and I am reminded of James’s words:

My brethren, do not hold your faith in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ with an attitude of personal favoritism. For if a man comes into your assembly with a gold ring and dressed in fine clothes, and there also comes in a poor man in dirty clothes, and you pay special attention to the one who is wearing the fine clothes, and say, “You sit here in a good place,” and you say to the poor man, “You stand over there, or sit down by my footstool,” have you not made distinctions among yourselves, and become judges with evil motives? Listen, my beloved brethren: did not God choose the poor of this world to be rich in faith and heirs of the kingdom which He promised to those who love Him? But you have dishonored the poor man. (James 2:1-6, NASB).

I am convicted by this.  

I know what my company does is a very good thing and I am incredibly blessed to work there, but there are too many people in Memphis and all over the world who are unseen and dishonored in their poverty. Lots to ponder and pray.

Thursday, January 10, 2013

A Few Good Things

What awaited me on the other side of my drive was:
  •  a job interview (and a job!) with people who seem completely lovely, 
  •  good friends who have happily adopted me for the week, 
  • and  a very sweet girl in Cooper Young who is now my housemate.

And all of that within 36 hours of my arrival in Memphis! I’m so thankful to God for the awesome ways in which He has strengthened me to walk in the unknown, as well as for the abundant kindness with which He has provided.

Job and classes don’t start for another week, so in the meantime I will enjoy the unseasonably warm rain and enjoy this city and the people who live here!  : )

Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Okay, here we go... back to Memphis!!


My room is in chaos. There are Christmas decorations and “seasonally appropriate animals” festively strewn about my room, there’s a packed suitcase, an empty suitcase, and things all around me that will soon be in boxes (hopefully). My animals sit happily in my window, suggesting to the world outside that this room is full of peace and delight and rest. It is. But I’m moving.

I’m moving to Memphis.

Still the thought of it is surreal, and I keep waiting for the moment I realize it was crazy and I'm not actually moving. I know I’ve done this before, but it’s not the same. This time is very different for two main reasons: 1) I don’t know when I’m coming back, and 2) two weeks ago I thought I would be in Colorado until June-ish.

A whirlwind of change accelerated me through the holidays, and I sit here on January 2 feeling like it is still December 5.

I think I know where I will live, and I have prospects for jobs. But if I’m being honest with myself, I really have no idea what is about to happen. All I know is that it is time. That phrase kept coming up as I prayed and spoke with people. It is time. It’s a gentle and exciting invitation to step now into what I thought was coming back in August.

What awaits me on the other side of Friday’s drive? I haven’t the slightest, but I know God well enough to believe that it will be lovely and good and challenging and… awesome. Even if I fail big time and have to move back home after a month, I am ready and excited to go. It is absolutely worth it to try, and I am deeply grateful to have my family and friends here behind me, sad to see me go but more than that: excited to see what God has in store down this road.

Speaking of the road, Rhonda (the Honda) had a flat tire last night, but after minor surgery (at midnight – thanks Dad) and a trip to the mechanic for a new tire, full inspection, and re-alignment, my noble steed is running as well as ever in all of her 112,000-mile glory!

It’s time to finish packing, to say final goodbyes, and to embrace with reckless abandon this new adventure.

 Happy new year!